Tuesday, April 7, 2015

On Valuing Women's Bodies

A February 2015 ESSENCE article listed seven attributes which led a man to marry his wife. Written by a man, Point # 6, titled She Isn't Easy, caught my eye

She respected and valued her body. She wouldn't let me sleep with her on the first night, the first week, the first month like every other woman I'd met until that point.

She wouldn't let me. . .

Why were you trying?

Dear Men,

I am beyond tired of being told to keep my legs shut while you are trying to get between them. Why do I have to defend myself to be considered respectable? Why do I have to prove to you that my body is to be valued?

How 'bout you respect me by not trying to sleep with me on the first night, first week, first month? How 'bout you show me how much you value me by not pressing the issue?

Cordially,

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